
Have you ever met or seen a person once and thought to yourself, There is a guy who gets it? I like his message, and this needs to be heard by others. I can remember thinking that one day five years ago when Coach David Verdu came to our school (Pine Hill School in Eureka, California) and spoke to the students. His energy was infectious. He had the kids eating out of the palm of his hand within two minutes with his brand of hilarity, music, magic, and positivity by “working the room.”
Like all good teachers, Coach Verdu, or “Coach” as he prefers, knows we first have to get our customers to the table before we can feed them. In this case, the customers were/are children, the future leaders of society. Coach is what I would describe as a “hands-on presenter,” immediately connecting with the students by sitting and eating breakfast while joking around with them. He has a big personality, and the students were thrilled to know Coach would be spending time with them at the upcoming assembly. Part of keeping elementary children engaged is by keeping a presentation moving. Coach becomes various memorable characters such as Hillbilly Willy, Crazy George, and Super Character Dude and chooses several children from the audience to help keep them focused.


His message was simple but powerful—SUSO (Stand Up and Stand Out.) The gist of his theme that day was an anti-bullying message. Sounds simple—nobody likes bullies. But understanding that behavior is wrong isn’t enough. Coach knows that we need to create an environment where bullying is more than just not accepted. We need to empower students to stand up and stand out when they see something that is not right occurring in front of them.
Part of what makes programs such as this one succeed or fail is the school’s culture. A culture is a living and breathing environment. It isn’t some random thing that happens by accident—instead, it is cultivated and nurtured by the school’s leaders.
Who are the school’s leaders? The most recognizable person who should wield the most influence in a school is the principal. Is this a person who engages each day with the staff, children, and their families? The most effective bosses do this by setting the tone. Having leaders among the teaching staff is also critical. A strong leader empowers experienced or influential teachers who understand that part of their role is to set a positive example for the rest of the staff. Including parents by making them feel welcome and involved is also part of a school’s culture. The final piece is the students themselves. A happy school is one where the students feel cared for and safe. Children need stability in their lives. That’s why programs such as Way Beyond Measure are essential because they help the school leaders create and maintain an environment most conducive to learning.
Way Beyond Measure is a comprehensive program for students in grades K-12. There are many elements to the program, but one of its key messages is to get students to think before they speak or act. One of the acronyms used to emphasize this philosophy is THINK:
T: Is it True? Is what I’m about to say true?
H: Is it Helpful? Will this be helpful or hurtful?
I: Is it Inspiring? Does it build up, or does it tear down?
N: Is it Necessary? If it’s not necessary, don’t say it!
K: Is it Kind? Will it encourage or discourage?
Coach recognizes that some of the biggest problems in middle school and high school have to do with bullying and suicide prevention. He tailors his age-appropriate lessons for those ages when speaking to older audiences.
Covid-19 has impacted us all. Coach gave in-person workshops before the pandemic began. In the past few months, Coach Verdu and his Way Beyond Measure team have developed online lessons for teachers and students.
Way Beyond Measure is more than just a program for children. Coach and his staff guide adults with their TAPS (Teacher’s and Parent’s Support) program. Teacher and parent programs can be two full-day workshops or shorter four-hour courses.

While any organization like Way Behind Measure requires teamwork and behind-the-scenes planning, Coach Verdu provides the energy to make it all work. Part of his story that I found the most fascinating was understanding that he has already packed more into his life than most of us will ever hope to achieve. He is a former teacher, junior high and high school basketball coach, athletic director, assistant basketball coach to the Denver Nuggets, parent to a blended family of six children, and foster parent to over fifty foster children!
In speaking to David Verdu about writing this article, I thought it best if you could hear from Coach directly. I posed these questions because I wanted to get to know him better:
- Please tell me about your teaching experience. What grades did you teach? How long? Where? My teaching experience started in 1987. My first assignment was teaching middle school and coaching girls basketball. This is the beginning of my 30-year career. I started teaching in California. In 1999, I moved to Colorado Springs, where I became an athletic director and high school basketball coach. The subjects I taught were Science, Biology, Health, Anatomy, and PE. I am still teaching to this day in Arkansas, where our organization travels to schools across the country teaching character development.
2. Where did the inspiration for Way Beyond Measure and SUSO come from? From my life experience. At a young age, I knew that I would be speaking to people; however, I didn’t know exactly what type of people. In 2011 I had an opportunity to speak at a school, and it was simply amazing, and I knew that was my lifelong calling. Way Beyond Measure was born in my heart to purposely inspire people to influence others, nothing more, nothing less. I want our generations to understand the importance of character. I have a desire to see change.
3. What do you hope to accomplish with Way Beyond Measure? We want to see change. With that, we aim to – educate future leaders locally and nationally, empower people to stand up and stand out (SUSO), encourage a culture to achieve its goals, and equip this generation to be.
4. Would you like to discuss the role that faith and religion have had in your life? My faith is everything to me. Without faith, I do not stand. It is what has got me to this point thus far. I have a friend that sticks closer than a brother.
5. Everyone calls you Coach. I know you have an athletic background and were an assistant coach for the Denver Nuggets at one point. Can you tell me about that part of your life and describe some of those experiences? For as long as I can remember, sports have been a big-time part of my life. In the early 70s, my father started sports programs in our new hometown. He was a pioneer back in the day. I remember my coaching career began at 15 years old. I got to coach my little brother’s basketball team as well as his indoor soccer team. Those were some experiences I would never change because that’s when I fell in love with inspiring people, and I was pretty good at it because I’ve always had a winning record. My father was also a big-time influence on why I became a coach because he was the best. One of my favorite stories has to be the first time I went to practice with the Denver Nuggets. I was expecting something so amazing, so life-changing as a coach. However, that didn’t happen. The coach blew the whistle, and the team got into lines for the layup drill. What? Layup drills—are you kidding me? This is the NBA. I’ll never forget what the coach told me. “You do what got you here, and you continue to get better at it.” From that point on, my life became a layup drill.
6. Where do you see yourself with Way Beyond Measure in 3-5 years? We will be a nation’s leading character development program. Throughout thousands of schools and homes, people will know our program’s curriculum and cartoon.
7. One of the more fascinating parts of your life story to me is your family, especially being a foster parent. Can you give me some of the backstories about that? How long have you been married? How many children do you have? What made you decide to become a foster parent? Any advice for anyone else considering becoming a foster parent? Ranaye and I have been married for over 14 years. We have six blended children and over fifty foster children that we call family. Becoming a foster parent was a no-brainer. We knew that we had more to give. We knew that if we wanted to see change, then we needed to become the change. We wanted to see children have an opportunity to be the best they could be without worrying about where we go, who we are we with, and can we trust who we are with. We took foster parenting very seriously. Becoming a foster parent is no light task—it is a calling for the strong. It is not easy, but it is very rewarding.
8. Who have been some of the most significant. role models in your life? (either personally, professionally, or spiritually?)
My Savior—Jesus Christ, my dad—Joseph, my mom–Sylvia, my brothers, my brother-in-law—Johnny Holland, Patrick Lewis, my Watch Group, and last but not least, of course, my mainstay—my wife—Ranaye.
It was my pleasure to get to know Coach David Verdu, and meet the man trying to make a difference in children’s lives. If you are interested in learning more about Way Beyond Measure or speaking to Coach about setting up a presentation at your school or business, here is his contact information:
Coach David Verdu
CEO/Founder
Way Beyond Measure, Inc.
Award winning Character Development, Anti-Bullying,
Teen/Childhood Suicide Prevention, Coach, and Author
479-219-4328
CoachVerdu@WayBeyondMeasure.com
https://www.facebook.com/donate/3833142530076618/
https://www.linkedin.com/company/way-beyond-measure/?viewAsMember=true
Looking at his photos, Coach Verdu seems larger than life- I’m sure his outgoing personality must be a hit with the kids.
I love this line from his interview: “You do what got you here, and you continue to get better at it.” From that point on, my life became a layup drill.
Thanks for introducing us to this man who is working to make a change; we need more like him!
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He’s a showman. That always helps when you’re working with kids because you’ve got to find ways to keep them engaged. Music, magic, and movement—I just made that up, but that is what he does to engage kids. I know signing a pledge is more symbolic than anything, but seeing everyone’s name in the school on a poster is rather powerful.
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It would be- he seems humble for all the showmanship ❤
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Fantastic post Pete. Reading about Coach David was so inpsiring. And listening to the short video alone, his enthusiasm and motivation jumps right out of the vid. Amazing mission to motivate and educate on anti-bullying. 🙂
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I’ve gotten a chance to talk to him a couple of times now. I can tell he’s a legitimately good guy and not just doing this to become famous or make a buck. Imagine caring for over 50 foster children.
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He’s a saint! I hope his goodness spreads and more hop in like him. 🙂
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That was a fantastic post, Pete – I loved reading about Coach Verdu. What an inspiration! Teaching kids to stand up and stand out must be the most important lesson there is. I call it showing up for yourself. Toni x
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I can think of a few situations when I was a teenager that I wish I had the courage to Stand Up and Stand Out. When we feel empathy and are empowered, I think we are much more likely to look out for others we see being mistreated.
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What a great person. Pete. Thanks so much for introducing me to The Coach. He looks like a super high-energy guy and I enjoyed the thoughtful interview. Thanks too, for all the information on anti-bullying efforts. It makes a difference! A wonderful positive post. 🙂
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These are some of the behind-the-scenes things that people aren’t always aware of in schools. I know it must be hard for a guy like Coach who is used to be in front of a live audience instead of providing lessons online, but everything is adjusting because of the pandemic.
I read with interest about your latest project and your thoughts about openings on your blog today, Diana. Thank you for sharing your process.
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Thanks, Pete.
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Way Beyond Measure sounds like a fantastic program every school should implement, Pete. I like the recommendation to Stand Up and Stand Out. We should all take action and not stand by and watch bullying happen. I also like his acronym THINK. Thanks for introducing me to Coach Verdu, obviously an outstanding man.
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Creating a culture of support is one of the key elements. It’s hard to Stand Up and Stand Out, but it’s a lot easier when kids understand that their voices will be supported by the adults in their lives.
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That’s right, Pete. It sure makes a difference when children (and adults) know they will be heard and supported.
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Thank you for sharing, Pete! Coach Verdu is a bright shining light and a great example for children to follow!
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We all need role models—even aging teachers in their sixties. 🤣 Have a good weekend, Jan!
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How inspiring! How important! Just by reading this post I feel like I’ve been to one of Coach’s presentations. I like the point of starting at the top with the principal to set the tone, and then filtering down to teachers and then to the students. While everyone supports anti-bullying, actually speaking up when bullying occurs is one of hardest things for children to do. It’s people like Coach who can help children, and also help teachers to help children. Yes, he ‘gets it’! Three cheers for Stand Up Stand Out.
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Like all good teachers, he is enthusiastic about his message. I had fun just watching how engaged the students were. I do think establishing the right culture is critical for success. There are many elements of The Golden Rule (without being overly preachy, religious message) in Way Beyond Measure’s philosophy—Treat others the way you want to be treated.
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You are not being overly preachy about The Golden Rule. It is fundamental, and teachers need to be role models and encourage students. The right culture can make all the difference. I feel the same way you do, Pete.
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it’s wonderful when a person has found their passion and they are able to make living pursuing that passion. Coach is one such person. He is doing work that makes a difference. And what a great interview you had with him, love the Nuggets story. I also love the ambition he has for his Way Beyond Measure program…
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He’s got many qualities that you find in a good coach—motivator, inspiration, and positive energy. I like to see programs such as this that take on serious problems in schools and society.
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I agree, and I can see your children’s books addressing such problems…
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You’ve figured out my modus operandi.
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🙂
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The world needs more people like Coach! Such a great message. Thanks for introducing us to him, Pete!
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Thank you Christy. If we can serve you contact us @ WayBeyondMeasure.com
Schools
After school Clubs
Corporation
Churches
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Yall are to kind. Thank you all for who YOU are. If we can serve any of you contact us at WayBeyondMeasure.com
Schools -Community Events – After School Program – (YMCA Boy n Girls Club)
Corporate Meeting
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Great job, Coach! Keep up the great work! You’re making a difference in kid’s lives. What nobler pursuit is there than that?
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David is an inspiring man, Pete. I am completely in awe of parents who adopt children and also foster children. This is a much more difficult task than most people realise as a lot of foster children have baggage of some sort and need a lot of love and special attention. I have thought about it myself, but my working life isn’t conducive to undertaking a task like this. Thanks for sharing this great post, Pete.
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I am also fascinated by people who decide to become foster parents. Of course, there is such a need. In doing some research before writing this story, I found a Youtube clip where Coach Verdu was interviewed with one of his foster children. His son, probably in his early 20s, is the media specialist who helps produce some of the YouTube clips and other technological aspects on Way Beyond Measure’s website.
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A very special family, Pete.
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Hello Pete,
Thanks for the link. Sounds like a very interesting guy. I’m curious as to how it came about that he came to your school. Did your principal find out about him and invite him? Or perhaps the school district invites him to visit multiple schools in the district?
Jim
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Very perceptive, Jim. The connection was he used to go to the same high school as my principal. If I remember correctly, they were both on the same swim team. She’s a runner and has competed in twenty-six marathons. Ironically, that is the same distance as one marathon.
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Thank you for introducing us to Coach, Pete! The work he is doing to make the world a better place is just phenomenal!! This should be a permanent banner for every social media platform:
T: Is it True? Is what I’m about to say true?
H: Is it Helpful? Will this be helpful or hurtful?
I: Is it Inspiring? Does it build up, or does it tear down?
N: Is it Necessary? If it’s not necessary, don’t say it!
K: Is it Kind? Will it encourage or discourage?
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Isn’t that a great philosophy? Sometimes I cringe when I read something hurtful that a person has written. It’s too bad that there isn’t some kind of delay in rereading their thoughts before hitting send.
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Yes, it is. Everyone needs a Jiminy Cricket on their shoulder
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A great person to deal with children – Coach. Bullying has been with us since my mother was a child – I do hope we rid ourselves of this terrible problem someday. A wonderful post Pete.
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You and I never had to deal with online bullying when we were kids, Peggy. I think in many ways it’s harder to be a kid now, despite all of the advancements in technology.
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Techhnology definitely is bad when it comes to bullying.
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Coach Verdu seems to have found his calling – kids need to be inspired and he is the man for the job.
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You can always tell speakers who have been in front of children before. Coach Verdu is one of those types who has been around the block, so he engages them right away. There were times when we had less experienced speakers, and those results could be quite humorous. They would call on children in the audience each time a hand went up, expecting a brilliant question. Instead, some five-year-old might begin a rambling story regarding how his dog once had fleas. The looks of befuddlement on the speaker’s face were priceless.
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Never work with children or animals…😂
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I love the depth here Pete. Just the story about his work is interesting and entertaining enough to be a post, but I like that you dug deeper to present us a more intimate view of who Coach is and how his story all began. What a worthy endeavor and goal he has created. You are a master of the interview style as this is compelling and wonderful to read. Kudos, my friend!
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I’m fascinated by people and the motivation behind what they do. Usually, they’ve had a specific role model or incident that inspires them to take action. Thanks for the compliment, Brad.
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Sharing and shouting for joy! 🙂 A message and resources that we all need to listen to, learn from and put into action in our everyday lives, Pete! Thanks for helping to get the word out!
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Right on, Bette! Thanks for sharing. One of the parts of this program I probably didn’t highlight was the suicide prevention piece. One of the downsides to social media is the enormous scrutiny that teens and young adults face.
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Great to know! 🙂 Sharing again…
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Thank you for sharing Coach with us … and his very important message!
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Aw, thanks, Donna. I think what he is doing is super important. Kids should never have to worry about being safe when they come to school. It should be a sanctuary for learning and fun.
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I love this, Pete. I teach a grad school class on digital citizenship and part of it addresses bullying–what teachers can do to stop it, address, get kids to face it down. There are lots of things kids can do other than asking an adult for help. Thanks for these resources.
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Exactly, Jacqui. Adults are not always going to be there, so we need to equip our students with the tools to know how to deal with many situations on their own or with friends’ support. Bullying comes in many different forms besides physical intimidation. Role-playing is one of those skills where students can practice how to handle different scenarios.
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Amen to that.
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Empowering students is more than teaching them the curriculum. Kids are not stand alone students or stand alone sons and daughters. Empowering kids is a community effort. I like what Coach is doing. Thank you for sharing this post, Pete!
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Great point, Miriam! Students need opportunities to demonstrate leadership opportunities. It is our job to help bring that out by teaching them skills and providing a platform. Kids want responsibility and the chance to make a difference. Programs such as Way Beyond Measure are a building block toward that.
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I can see that, Pete. We need more programs like this available for students and bring the awareness to the teachers and parents also.
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Thanks for sharing this Pete!
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Thank you, Kim. Even though I’m retired, I’m always on the lookout for people bringing in good stuff to our children and schools.
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The strong message of anti-bullying (one that should be centred around empathy, kindness and compassion) is so important and much more relatable to the younger generation (unfortunately). These are powerful messages and I feel like they will change lives (perhaps even save some). Thanks for sharing, Pete!
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I’ve seen some of the Way Beyond Measure videos. They are centered around kindness, inclusion, and empathy—three messages everybody should be able to embrace. Their program for middle school and high school is geared toward those groups and is much more age-appropriate.
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Love his spirit and attitude. What a great guy!! Such a very important message in these times especially! Wishing him all the best as he continues to share in schools and I hope it does spread far and wide.
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Isn’t he great? He’s still trying to reach people online with his positivity and outreach, but I’ll bet he would prefer to work with people in person. Like everything else, the virus impacts us all in different ways.
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Very true!
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his message and his presence sound powerful and engaging
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As you well know, Beth, children’s safety and self-esteem should be top priorities. It’s heartbreaking to hear of students who are afraid to come to school because they are fearful. That should be the least of their worries.
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yes, I so agree
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A guy who gets it….I want to be around this person and also find out what makes him tick. Many behind the scenes gems in this post – get customers to the table before we can feed them – keep a presentation moving. Wow, an empowering message “SUSO.” I like your phrase, the school’s culture. When my children were in school, the parents often referred to the philosophy of the principal. The acronym “THINK” is an excellent life skill for adults to continue implementing in their lives.
You posed great questions for David Verdu. Interesting about “lifelong calling” and his Father’s influence. “Character development” a key.
Like you say, Pete, David Verdu’s energy is infectious. An excellent post!
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Behind most dynamic leaders, there are usually people who helped inspire them. I like the story behind the story and drilling down to find out why. As an educator, I felt one of my biggest roles was to encourage children to follow their dreams. Thank you for your kind remarks, Erica. Coach Verdu is quite the motivator—a necessary quality for any good coach.
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I greatly appreciate your thoughtful posts, Pete. You continue to educate and I am one of the fortunate recipients.
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What an absolutely lovely story! Thank you for sharing it with us Pete!
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How can you not root for someone trying to help children? The first responsibility of all educators is to make sure their students feel safe and cared for. Empowering and supporting students when they have problems has to be a priority.
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I agree with this all! So important to who we are as a people.
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I love presenters like this. I can see why the kids respond to him well. Thanks, Pete for bringing Coach Verdu to our attention.
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My pleasure, Darlene. He is an animated and fun guy who knows how to connect with kids. I was quite impressed when I saw him doing his thing.
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Great stuff, Pete! 🙂
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Thanks, John! Serious problems call for serious solutions.
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Great message that every kid (and adult) need to hear! Thanks for another great interview!
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A school’s culture determines whether children are happy to be there. That can’t be determined by one person, but having effective leadership is a huge factor.
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It is great to meet Coach Verdu through you, Pete. Wishing him every success.
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His story is quite fascinating. I saw his program, and I wanted to bring it to other people’s attention. It’s a serious problem that we need to tackle head-on.
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I agree. Thanks, Again.
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