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When I taught elementary school, I never shared my political views with my students. It was not my place to shape the opinions of my students. On Election Day, I recall older kids in 5th and 6th grades asking me who I voted for, but I never told them.
There were times, particularly when we were studying history, it was nearly unavoidable that some student in the class would make a somewhat political statement. How can the subject of race and politics not come up when studying the Civil War or the civil rights movement? Each day, my class would recite the Pledge of Allegiance and say the words “and liberty and justice for all.” It was tough for me to rationalize how a country that professed equal treatment of all was, in reality, a nation where things were far from equal for its citizens.
While I believe in the “liberty and justice for all” standard, too many times we have fallen woefully short. How can we claim equality when the only citizens who could vote for years were wealthy white male landowners? George Washington became our first President in 1789. In 1869, eighty years later, the 15th amendment to the Constitution passed and granted all men (over 21) the right to vote, regardless of race and color.
In 1878, Congress introduced an act that would have allowed women to vote, but it did not pass. It wasn’t until 1920, a regrettable 131 years after Washington was elected, that Congress passed the 19th amendment, finally allowing women the right to vote. It is particularly tragic that a country that is supposed to be about equality still hasn’t elected a female President 232 years after Washington was elected.
Women are not the only people discriminated against in our history. Can we not comprehend how poor people, particularly people of color, have not held the same rights? It wasn’t until 1964, a mere 57 years ago, that Congress passed the 24th amendment outlawing poll taxes. These taxes had been levied for years discouraging poor people from voting.
In 1971, Congress passed the 26th amendment lowering the voting age from 21 to 18. Until this amendment, that meant 18-year-old men were old enough to be drafted to fight in the Vietnam War yet did not have the right to vote. Voter suppression still exists today. The struggle for equal rights is not over.
Racism continues to rear its ugly head. When we don’t call it out, we are complicit in allowing it to happen. One doesn’t have to be a scholar to see that African Americans, Asian Americans, Muslim Americans, and many other groups have all experienced instances of hate and differential treatment. I am a big supporter of the police, and I believe that there are far more outstanding police officers than not. On the other hand, there are more instances of police brutality against minorities. If we ignore that fact, then we are burying our heads in the sand.
In the over two years that I’ve maintained a blog, I have avoided political issues. I am friends with people of many political persuasions. That’s not the reason I’m friends with anyone. I choose my friends based on what kind of people they are. What are we teaching our children when we can’t accept that someone is entitled to their own opinion?
Now that I’m retired and no longer employed by a school district, I feel more empowered to speak my conscience. I refuse to stand idly by as we allow more discrimination. We need to use our voices and not treat others differently because they happen to have a different skin tone, ethnicity, religion, gender, sexual preference, etc.
June is Pride Month, and I am happy to offer my support to the LGBTQ community. I feel who someone chooses to love is none of the government’s or my business. For those who feel like there is something wrong with being lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans, or queer, I wonder if they realize how much psychological damage they are doing by being narrow-minded. What if this was your parent, brother, sister, child, nephew, or niece? If that makes us love someone less, then it’s probably time to take a long hard look in the mirror.
Equal rights shouldn’t be a political issue anyway, though some may try to make it one. For me, it is as simple as what’s right and wrong.
I may be late in reading this but glad I found it! Well said!
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Thank you, Carolyn. Not my usual kind of post, but I felt compelled to show my support for some of my friends. Who cares who someone loves if they’re a good person?
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You are welcome. Yes, we need to look at the person’s heart, not on who they love.
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Well said, Pete!
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Thanks for reading, Jennie. This isn’t the type of thing I typically write about (and probably will rarely do in the future), but I have too many friends from these communities not to support them.
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Like you, I’m not an ‘out there’ kind of person when it comes to writing about my voice, but sometimes you gotta do it.
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I don’t like to argue or debate about politics or religion, Pete. I’m not shy to reveal my conviction either. I remember my teaching days. I think there are ways to present religious or political issues in positive ways without accusations. It would be okay for a student to tell me about their parents’ preferences which may not be mine. Even among family members, we have people from different political parties. We respect and truly acknowledge each other’s freedom. As far as gender issues, both my husband and I love our best friends. We respect their choices or their children’s choices, but it doesn’t mean that we would make the same choices to be our lifestyle.
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I think the main principle for me is that if we are truly a free country, we should accept others regardless of their preferences. I would usually defer to the parents if a child asked me a religious question.
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That’s a wise thing to do, Pete.
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Beautiful post Pete. Well said. People must start speaking out! 🙂
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Thanks, Debby. I’d like to think that we would have learned this lesson by now. Humans keep making the same mistakes. We just continually find new groups to single out.
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You are so right. Perhaps if we keep calling things out, they’ll get drilled in more and more.
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Bravo Pete! I especially liked that last sentence.
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We can’t ask our children to achieve some standard of ethics if we first don’t demonstrate this ourselves. Thanks for reading, Kim.
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Amazing that this is worldwide.
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Equally amazing is realizing it has only been around for a short time. Change takes a lot of time over the course of history. It evolved out of a protest from 1969 called the Stonewall riots but was not recognized by any President until 1999.
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Hear, hear, Pete! I stand behind you 100%. Anybody who is against equal rights thinks they are better than anyone else. Anyone with a narrow mind is missing out big time! There are a few signs in my current neighborhood that speak to me. You might have seen them in California as well. “Injustice somewhere is a threat to justice everywhere” and something about remaining quiet is allowing inequality to happen. Good on you for dedicating a blog post to Pride Month.
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Thanks, Liesbet. Why should anyone have to justify who they choose to love? Isn’t it more important that they find somebody to love regardless of gender? Way too many judgmental people in the world.
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Thank you for sharing a candid post, Pete. Women and the vote always hits home. And, all of the other great points you make. I faintly remember learning about the 26th amendment as a young girl. You also bring up a good point about sharing ‘opinions.’ An excellent post! “Equal rights” and what is “right.”
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My blog welcome ALL, and I value diverse opinions, some maybe who differ from mine. I follow God’s law: To love everybody. We are made in His image, after all.
I read comments here too, and, like Darlene, I remember Grandma L. saying, “It takes all kinds to make a world.” Great post! 🙂
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Fear of one’s neighbor simply because they are different in some way seems so sad to me. The Golden Rule of treating others the way we want to be treated should be the goal.
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That is a great declaration, Pete – I agree, it shouldn’t actually be a political issue. Toni
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Certain issues are oddly political. One would think that things like personal freedom and public health wouldn’t be so controversial.
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“When we don’t call it out, we are complicit in allowing it to happen.” That line is so important, Pete. Speaking up and standing up is important. I’ve learned (and I’m still learning) how to speak up “for” the things I believe in (like equality, fairness, kindness, and justice) instead of “against” the things that make me ripping mad (power at all costs, greed, discrimination, cruelty, and a complete lack of empathy). I’m great at confrontation, and unfortunately, that changes no one’s mind. So, like you are doing with this post, I try to state my values and live by example. Wonderful post, my friend. You have a good heart.
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I know you consider yourself an introvert, Diana, but your supportive nature to your fellow bloggers always shines through. It’s a testament to your outstanding writing and your kindness that so many people visit your blog. We don’t all have to be the rah-rah cheerleader type to demonstrate kindness and empathy through our actions.
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“who someone chooses to love is none of the government’s or my business.” <—Well said! Oftentimes people ask me what I think about LBGTQ+ and I respond that it doesn’t matter what I think. People should be free to do as they please granted they aren’t harming anyone else
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At times I get frustrated at how close-minded people are, but then I remind myself how far we’ve come in other ways. When I was back in high school (granted, that was a long time ago), the worst putdown guys said to each other was to call each other gay. Education of the masses, unfortunately, takes a long time.
Thanks for your comment, Shelly. I’m enjoying your blog. I think I may have met you through Bossy Babe.
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Yes, that is the way it is–but hardly the way it should be. Silence is golden–except when it comes to injustice.
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There are many great things about America, and I’m convinced that there are far more decent people than not, but injustice in any form bothers me. We have to do better.
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I am always interested in reading peoples opinions on political and emotional topics. I have been reading a bit about Pride month because my sons school celebrated it. I don’t recall ever hearing about it before this year.
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It’s gotten quite a bit of attention in the last few years in America. Hopefully, one day it will just be commonly accepted and not have to have a designated month.
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well said, Pete. I usually avoid talking about such issues in person, but I feel mroe comfortable doing so online. My thoughts are the same as yours, we’ve got alot of work to do in this country until we live up to our pledge of “liberty and justice for all”. Enjoy your vacation!
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Online is easier, but every little bit helps. Sitting at the airport right now for a long day of travel.
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hopefully you will share your adventures on your blog!
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Amen, amen, AMEN!
“Equal rights shouldn’t be a political issue.” Nothing but truth in your piece, Pete. The facts seem so clear, and yet, I sometimes question my own sanity considering how often they are disputed.
The kids were so lucky to have you. But I’m happy you’re able to speak with less neutrality these days. How freeing🌺
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I get frustrated by the “us against them” mentality that seems so pervasive in society under the guise of nationalism. Loyalty to one’s country is a good thing as long as we include all of our citizens. We all want the same things, such as someone to love, shelter, and a good education for our kids. Thank you for your comments.
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Well said, Pete! ❤ Sharing…
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Thanks so much, Bette!
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I echo many others in saying this was a well-written post. It is so important to teach children to see both sides of every issue. It should start at home, but unfortunately often doesn’t. My father had a grade 7 education but taught us that everybody was worthy of respect. One of his favourite sayings was, it takes all kinds to make a world.
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Heroes are often thought of as the people who risk their lives for us such as soldiers or police officers. While those people should be recognized, it is often the people like your dad who don’t get the recognition they deserve. Heroes are the parents who hold down two jobs so that their kids can have a better life.
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So true. There are many unsung heroes out there. I wrote about my dad and called him, my hero in a pickup truck.
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Thank you for sharing this!
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You’re welcome. Thank you, John.
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Well said, Pete. You’re absolutely right, but I fear those prejudices are so ingrained in many people, and some politicians make a lot of money out of pandering to them.
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Pandering politicians—ahhhhh. Makes me a little crazy. Hitting the road today for our second post-vaccination trip. I may give myself a week off from blogging.
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I am pretty cynical about most politicians! Enjoy your trip, hope it goes well 👍
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Well said, Pete. Like you I particularly avoid anything to do with politics and religion on my blog. It’s the best way to be!
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I don’t think this (politics or religion) will become a regular thing with me, but I try to write about whatever is on my mind.
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Here, here – my sentiments exactly. Such deep-rooted biases of those who are different! Why can’t they recognize that different is a great thing? Different races, financial class, upbringing, sexes, gender identities, physical/mental function, religions, and overall different perspectives give us a better opportunity to truly “see” the world. It is both engaging and enriching. I wish I knew how to solve the problem!
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Well stated, Joyce. Maybe you need to consider starting a blog. 😊
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Nicely written, Peter!
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Thanks, Donna! Have a great weekend!
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Well said. Too many old rich narrow-minded white guys still have too much power. Speaking up is so important.
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We can’t undo history, but we can certainly learn from it. We must be slow learners as, throughout history, groups have been singled out for being “different.”
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Good post, Pete. I agree with almost everything you wrote. The only thing I disagree with was the inference that there has been no woman president because of discrimination. There has been no woman president because no woman has been able to convince party pols and the voting public that they should be elected. To say otherwise is to risk being labeled a sexist for disagreeing with the politics of someone who happens to be of a different gender.
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Perhaps discrimination is a poor choice of words for why we haven’t had a female President. I know some people think that women lack the capacity to do the job. I don’t know how I’d define that, other than to think it’s a pretty ignorant position. I appreciate your opinions on the subject, John.
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I have daughters and know they have the capacity to do the job. I agree that to say otherwise about women is pretty ignorant.
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I commend you for standing up for what is right and speaking out. I also commend you for keeping your political views out of the classroom. It saddens me that we have not seen the gains in social justice that some people sacrificed their lives for.
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When controversial issues arose, especially with older elementary students who are more globally aware, I tried to help the kids see both sides of an issue and the need for compromise. For example, logging is a large industry where we live, and yet there are also many environmentalists. Understanding someone else’s views is important, even if we don’t necessarily agree with them.
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We struggle with the same thing teaching adults in college. Seeing both sides of an emotionally charged issue doesn’t come easy for a lot of people.
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I entirely agree Pete but if I may can I add another category to your list, one that cuts across all of those in your various categories and who probably need a bigger voice than any of the above for that reason, and that’s the disabled, or differently abled maybe. I don’t mean to impinge upon your strong and timely post so I apologise but I feel very passionate that their many and varied voices are raised to the rafters…
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Absolutely true, Geoff. The disabled are often not well-represented. I’ll toss in another on my own list as well—the elderly. I know that in many cultures, the elderly are well-respected and looked up to for their wisdom. Sadly, that is not what I see here in America.
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Well said, Pete! I couldn’t agree with you more.
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Thank you, Margie. Certainly, not the kind of thing I typically write about. It just bothers me so much that our society seems to love to label people and define them based on their perceptions of “normal.”
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Good on you for writing this piece. Even if you only change one person’s perception it will be worth it!
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I doubt that it’ll change anyone’s mind, but it feels like it’s the right thing to do. On the other hand, if people aren’t outspoken, then things won’t change for sure.
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